by a sis that i have came to know 3 years ago.
honestly speaking, we are not closed to each other.
but i tell her my problems.
she is a very independent girl that i look up to.

she told me this

"In evaluating a relationship, we gotta be very clear about what we absolutely can't live without instead of focusing on what we would have to live with. Communication and understanding each other is not easybut if you really care about each other, then it would be worth the effort."

and

"Everytime we argue, the reason always seem to stem from one same point, that is "I feel that you didn't have me in your heart or you didn't understand me." Then it becomes clearer that the problem starts from that feeling, which makes the misunderstanding worse... "

from the above two statements.... me, on another hand is doing some thinking.

am i really that not understanding???
- if you don't want to talk to me.... how am i going to understanding???
- i really try to understand, but i have no clue to it. i also want to know why you are doing this but too bad, you haven't been telling me until i scream!!!

tell me now..
what can i do?

Labels: princess' life, princess' thought